Tuesday, September 11, 2007

For Mr./Ms. Anonymous

Though the postcard from Shanghai series is still not complete... I am breaking the continuity of that series of posts...

Recently during just another discussion with some of my MIT friends after a long long time came up the topic of the tragic events of 2006...Almost a year is gone since his accident but Shashank still lives in the mind of many....and so does the Gujju guy..watever his name is...

In my last year's post regarding the incident, an anonymous person had commented on my posts and had vent anger on the gujju guy... I had also been asked to correct my post....I dont see anything wrong from the post but I do agree that it doesnt bring out things in the way they happened....
As anonymous had commented it was the gujju who was driving the car when the accident took place... well I dont have any police records but what everyone knows is what anonymous has written...it was indeed him...and hence many people blame him for that...

.I am not a person in a position to blame anyone.....I just ponder over the past and try to understand things as they happened and try to learn lessons from them so that I can avoid any unpleasant experiences...For me the gujju guy represents people who you should beware of...beware if he claims to be your friend....beware of him.... the guy has put the photo of the Ford Ikon after the accident in his Orkut profile..... the same Ikon which caused the death of another person... He seems to be flaunting it....What kind of a person does that....?

Many of us have clouded judgments....Our instincts fail to judge correctly or we dont trust our instincts...If it is the second case then it is really sad... In my experience you should be aware of your instincts.... You should be able to judge how much you can trust a person... how much can he be your friend..... Misjudgment can lead to very bad results.....as we found out last year...

I cannot even imagine the pain that his parents will be throughout their life.... I just wish that they have the strength to move on....

3 comments:

Sudhir Pai said...

I remember the incident sassy!
in fact, i was'nt acquainted with either the of the gentlemen you have referred to, but i'll admit my disappointment got the better of me when i saw the owner of the ikon actally advertising it on his orkut album. Highly insensitive!

Shashi Singh said...

Yeah..!! I felt the same way.... That is what prompted me to write this post..!!

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